My story is that of post-apartheid challenges as I was raised by my mother’s wages from the domestic work she did. She was good at it and always hard working. Despite her circumstances that were never easy, I don’t remember my mother requesting us to be anything more than ourselves. I remember when I was in high school she once asked if I had decided which university or college I was planning on going to further my studies. When I told her I was planning on going to study radio production at a college in Johannesburg, she wasn’t disappointed.
She never fantasized about us becoming lawyers, doctors or accountants in the house. She knew that ours would be a story of freedom of choice that black people didn’t have before. So a year after studying radio, I again exercised my choice and went to the Tshwane University of Technology to study journalism in Pretoria.
Choice is sometimes hindered by circumstances. I wasn’t born with a silver spoon in my mouth and I haven’t been able to pick and choose every internship I want. I was offered training by Media 24 in Cape Town and turned that down as internships offer little wages to either pay rent or buy food - doing both with that stipend is near impossible. So I’ve turned down work I know I would have loved because of those circumstances. I also understand that as I face those challenges, I can’t complain too much about them because the opportunity that was offered would not have been made to people like my parents when they were younger during the hard days of apartheid.
After that realising the struggle I’d have in relocating to another province, I then applied for another internship with Pretoria University and I was given it. Persistence is something I also picked up from my parents. They also put me under immense pressure when they decided to name me after Nelson Mandela, the good thing is that it’s only a second name (or middle name to our friends that butcher the English language, the Americans).
I have always wanted to live in Cape Town, so last year when I was studying and working at Pretoria University, I started saving money so I could take up opportunities in the Mother City. So when an opportunity came, I took it. Now I am intern at GCIS in Parliament.
At least TUT gave me work in the field I am interested in, I had to help chair second year students with their diary meetings for broadcast journalism practicals, assist them when editing their video footage and produce their news bulletins. It was not with a big news organisation as I’d hoped, but it’s relevant experience.
I don’t deny the challenges that other young people have, I acknowledge that South Africa has high rates of unemployment. We can sit, discuss these, complain and then not realise that some people have opportunities to change their circumstances as I have. Some people can apply for government student loans and study and only repay these loans when they get employment.
Freedom has given us choices that our parents didn’t have when they were young.