Those who are married want out (divorce), but those who are not married want to go in (to marry).
Those who are working want to go out (quit), but those who are unemployed still want to go in and can settle for anything.
Those who are dead want to live, but those who are alive want to die.
Younger people want to be older, and older people want to be younger again.
Some 'white' want to be 'black" and some 'black' wants to be 'white'.
What a confusion, can a human being be satisfied?
Crux of the matter appreciate the little. Getting in or out might not be enough.