I usually surround myself with men; I am usually in a company of male friends more than I am with my female friends. Perhaps, I tend to connect more with men because I am a daddy’s girl.
Anyway, I always start constructive arguments with men because I believe that many men are thinkers - they do not use their feelings much; that means that they are able to come up with solid ideas. I like that about men. I find men with so many strategies to offer and that I can take for myself and use in my daily life. However, I do not understand them when they complain and say that they do not understand women. I mean, with all that objectivity and intelligence that men have, they still fail to understand women. Really? I think not.
I thought about it. And, I concluded that men pretend not know women to avoid to fulfil expectations that women have of them. I think that men figured out women a long time ago and maybe discussed it amongst themselves and agreed to act confused. Laugh out loud!
I think men know that women want love, attention, a listener (if the men prefer not to be talkers), cuddling, lots of attention, security, lots and lots of attention. That is all.
I say this with confidence because females are subjective creatures. They use their feelings to make decisions; they use emotions. However, somehow females have managed to figure out what men want. We understand that men want food, sex, respect and a few cuddling sessions in between.
Now, is there any man out there who can be brave enough to tell us the time and date that men plan to stop with this staged confusion? Men know that they know us better - and sometimes, more than we know ourselves. However, men still complain amongst themselves and say, “this woman, she’s problematic; she’s this. I don’t get her, and so on.”
This must stop.