Watch out for the Johnnys of society

I have really come to the conclusion that men who mentally and physical abusing their partners always have this self inflicting woods.

I am also experiencing this sob story about wounds, injuries that is self inflicting but are told it was some altercation which is so far fetched.

Watch out for men that are abusing alcohol and more than often drugs as minor as zol. Mixing the two is extremely toxic and definitely change your personality.

Never mind how much you think you need and love the abuser. Get out as they break your spirit and personality.

I am no longer young and will most definitely not get involved in any future relationship. I am at the moment just go to work, sleep enjoy my own reality.

The worst these women can do is jump into a relationship. As Surtie Richard said on her program, kook proe en liefde. 

If you cannot be happy as a singlet it won't work in a relationship. Women heal yourself and family before looking for Mr Right.

I also of the opinion that women take abuse for financial gain.

Boyfriend telling you he is going home to sleep but end up at some hotel bah wah wah !!! kick his backside to the curb.

Please have self respect. Finding the right person is not easy.