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What’s the worst backhanded compliment you’ve ever received?

When it comes to paying someone a compliment some people get it right, while others get it so, so, so very wrong.

We asked our readers to tell us about the worst insults-disguised-as-flattery they’ve ever received.

Here are some of the cringe-worthy responses.

Rosemary:  My mother-in-law said the following to me:  “You had your hair cut! Oh, now you almost look pretty!”

Lesley-Anne:  “Congratulations! When are you due?” I've not weighed over 60kg since then.

Prolation: "l thought you were this pretty girl, sorry."

Janine: "The extra weight suits you."

Palesa: “You're the kind of woman who can make a married man divorce his wife!”

Moleboheng: "You look like someone who has a kid" by my boyfriend

Joy: “You’re fat and dress so well for a fat girl"

Juliette: “Oh I bought the exact same blouse. I threw mine away.”

Maphumy: "Varsity must be treating you well, you're fat now!"

Aumer: “You’re too cute for a person of your colour” and, “you look better with a weave.”

Read more of our reader responses on our Facebook thread and share your own.

What’s the worst backhanded compliment you’ve ever received? Share in the comments below.

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